RESOURCE LIBRARY 

Welcome to the SINGLE MINDED resource library!

 

We've curated an ever growing list of encouraging, challenging and biblically faithful resources on singleness and related topics.  We are always growing our library, so if you know of a resources which you think belongs here please contact us!

 

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3 PROMISES FOR EVERY WOMAN THIS MOTHER'S DAY

Michelle Tepper

Article

Mother’s Day stirs up so many different emotions for us. Becoming a mother is one of the most gratifying aspects of life. Having children is a lifelong journey of laughter, tears, duty, and delight, with endless opportunities to learn something new each day. For many, though, Mother’s Day is a deeply painful holiday.

3 THINGS SINGLE PARENTS WISH YOU KNEW

Tessa Reed

Article

A couple of years ago, someone asked me, “What’s it like for you as a single parent?” I teared up instantly. The feelings of being adrift after the shipwreck of my marriage and the struggles of raising my daughter alone over the last decade all flooded back in...

7 DOS & DONT'S OF PASTORING SINGLES

Whitney Woollard

Article

“The assumptions are really what kill. It’s almost always assumed singles are either dying of loneliness or burning with lust.” Nodding, eager to hear more, I thought back on similar accounts from singles in different churches. By trying to listen and learn from singles—young, old, male, female, divorced, widowed, working, students, seminarians—my goal was to get the inside scoop on their experience as singles in the church.

7 MYTHS ABOUT SINGLENESS

Sam Allberry

Book

While singleness is often widely misunderstood by many in the church today and often viewed in negative terms, the Bible speaks about it very differently. This book sets forth a positive vision of singleness by responding to 7 common misconceptions, such as the notion that singleness is too hard, requires a special spiritual gift, is a hindrance to ministry, or is a waste of sexuality. Addressed to the church as a whole and written by a single pastor, 7 Myths about Singleness will help readers better understand, support, and empower the singles around them to contribute to the flourishing of the church as a whole

7 WAYS TO NAVIGATE A SEXUALLY SHIFTING CULTURE

Sam Allberry

Audio

Sam Allberry speaks on costly discipleship in a rapidly changing culture

9 WAYS TO PASTOR THOSE LONGING FOR MARRIAGE

Matt Smethurst

Article

Shepherding single Christians who desire marriage and battle discontentment is not always easy, but it is a privilege. And it is a stewardship entrusted to every pastor. Here are nine things to teach and emphasize to discontented singles in your church.

A FRESH LOOK AT 1 CORINTHIANS 7

Jocelyn Bignill

Article

In a story polished to a fine gleam by Disney, pop music and the rolling fairytale of our Instagram feed, we are told that the destination we are all heading for and the only thing that will complete us is our soul mate. Marriage, in this narrative is an idol. And when the story goes off course, it leaves us feeling empty and hopeless. But Paul has a different story to tell us in 1 Corinthians 7, one that gives us a blueprint for greater contentment: stay where you are; serve God where you are.

A GOSPEL-CENTERED FRAMEWORK FOR MINISTERING TO LONELY PEOPLE

Article

The trend line of growing isolation and singleness is clear. So, how will the local church minister to growing numbers of people who remain single? How will pastors and elders serve congregations of believers for whom being single doesn’t just mean being unmarried, but being alone

A SINGLE HOME... FOR ALL

Dani Treweek

Article

The fact that “home” is so often the location of such inner turmoil for single Christians can actually be a great blessing. In fact, in it is precisely one sense in which we unmarried Christians are called to faithfully exhort, encourage and even (lovingly) rebuke our married brothers and sisters in Christ.

A THEOLOGY OF SEXUALITY

Andrew Errington

Video

Elective from the Single Minded Conference, Saturday 22nd September 2018

ARE WE REALLY IN DANGER OF MAKING AN IDOL OF THE FAMILY?

Kevin DeYoung

Article

“One of the acceptable idolatries among evangelical Christians is the idolatry of the family.” That’s what I tweeted last week. To be honest, I didn’t think much about it. I’ve said similar things in sermons for the past decade, and I’ve tweeted similar things before. But this time—I was later told by friends who track with Twitter more closely than I do—the statement took on a life of its own as this one sentence was liked 1,600 times and bandied about on social media for the next few days. Unknown to me, I was (depending on who you ask) suddenly saying something wonderfully courageous or terribly misguided.

BEING SINGLE & BEING CHRISTIAN

Dani Treweek & Tony Payne

Audio

f your church is like most churches, around a third of the people sitting in the congregation on any given Sunday are single. Some have never married; others are widows, widowers or divorcees. What’s it like being single and Christian? How can we think biblically about the subject? And how can churches minister more effectively to the many single people in their midst? Dani Treweek is currently doing some postgraduate research into these questions, and she joins us in this episode not only to share some of her personal experience of being single (and ministering to other singles), but to give us a sneak peak at the results of her research.

BEING SINGLE & BEING CHRISTIAN

Dani Treweek & Tony Payme

Article

If your church is like most churches, around a third of the people sitting in the congregation on any given Sunday are single. Some have never married; others are widows, widowers or divorcees. What’s it like being single and Christian? How can we think biblically about the subject? And how can churches minister more effectively to the many single people in their midst? Dani Treweek is currently doing some postgraduate research into these questions, and she joins us in this episode not only to share some of her personal experience of being single (and ministering to other singles), but to give us a sneak peak at the results of her research.

BEING SINGLE IN MINISTRY

Lisa Boyd, Dave Freeman & Dani Treweek

Article

Three personal testimonies about singleness and minsitry

BEING SINGLE IN MINISTRY

Lisa Boyd, Dave Freeman & Dani Treweek

Audio

Three personal testimonies about singleness and minsitry